EJ says this about Tarah, and it reframes their whole marriage. He does not want to be one more person who takes advantage of her kindness. It is one of the more tender things I have heard a partner say out loud.
Brad and I sit with one of the big ones. What actually makes a life worthwhile, once you set aside the stories you inherited and the narratives everyone handed you. No tidy answer here, just an honest conversation about figuring it out for yourself.
Tarah talks about how a supervised session surfaced something her body had been carrying since she was a little girl, something she might have lived her whole life never knowing. She is holding the hardest thing that happened to her and somehow calling it a gift, because knowing finally let…
Brad shares a national survey he ran where eighty percent of people admitted something stops them from showing up for someone who is struggling, and the top reason was being afraid of saying the wrong thing. He talks about how music let him offer comfort when words could not.
Two therapists went looking to understand a new therapy and found their own life shift instead. This is an honest conversation about recovered memory, emotional safety in marriage, releasing control, and healing childhood trauma together as a couple. Tarah and EJ Kerwin help couples for a living through their counseling…
A short, bright moment near the start. One of them describes coming through something hard and waking up to an unexpected sense of relief, like the ground had quietly shifted underneath them. It sets the tone for everything that follows.
You know the version of yourself you built to get through. The one who keeps the peace, reads the room, holds it together so no one else has to worry. Maybe you have wondered who you would be if you ever set that version down. This week I sat with…
Brad and I get into the difference between fixing and supporting, especially with the person you love most. Sometimes the most helpful thing is not a solution. It is listening, letting someone know you hear how hard it is, and resisting the urge to make it better too fast.
That is Brad's line, and he means it. He talks about how unprocessed pain can turn into something that harms everyone around it, and how the same pain, tended carefully, can become a force that heals. It is one of the more hopeful things I have heard anyone say about…
Brad has lived with a deep fear of death his whole life, and he stopped waiting for it to disappear. He talks about learning to work with his own brain, finding joy alongside the fear rather than after it, and why happiness turned out to be something you build in…
Brad and I talk about how our lives can look nothing alike on the surface and still run on the same handful of feelings. Fear, love, grief, hope. It is the thing I keep finding on this show, that the details are different but the ache underneath is something we…
What began with Brad playing for one dying friend grew into Reimagine, a nonprofit that has helped more than 250,000 people face loss and turn it into something they can use. He talks about building tools and gathering rooms so people do not have to sit alone in the hardest…
Brad tells the story of writing a song for Sarah while she was sick, and what it felt like to watch music turn something unbearable into something with a little light in it. Sometimes the only thing you can offer someone is a song, and it turns out that is…
Brad talks about music as a lifelong mission, and not only the kind you play on a guitar. The metaphorical music we make together, the things we build while we still have the time. It is a simple idea that has quietly shaped the way he moves through his life.
Brad describes two very different directions grief can go. It can harden into something that hurts everyone around it, or it can be channeled into something that heals. He talks about what it actually takes to tend your pain on purpose instead of letting it run you.
Brad spent years believing you had to know the perfect thing to say. Sitting with Sarah taught him it was never about the words. It was about staying in the room, listening without trying to fix anything, and letting someone be exactly where they are. This one changed how I…
Brad is the grandson of Auschwitz survivors, and he grew up carrying a fear of death that never seemed to have a bottom. He talks about how the weight of what his family survived may have been passed down to him, written into his body before he ever understood where…
After Sarah died, Brad kept writing and playing her songs. What started as one person at a bedside grew into a foundation in her name that has raised over a million dollars for pediatric cancer research. He talks about what it means to keep someone here by turning their story…
Have you ever loved someone and felt the fear of losing them arrive in the very same breath? Most of us learn early to look away from that fear. Brad learned to look right at it. Brad grew up the grandson of Auschwitz survivors, carrying a fear of death that…
Brad Wolfe grew up terrified of death, the grandson of Auschwitz survivors. When someone he loved was diagnosed with cancer, he showed up with his guitar and learned to turn grief into something beautiful. In this episode of The Life Shift Podcast, Brad and Matt talk about the fear we…
Brad talks about the people he has watched take the heaviest losses and make something with their hands. A widow's cookbook. A hospital full of hand painted bookmarks. Songs written for people who were dying. It stopped being a nice idea for him and became proof that pain can be…
Tyler pulls back the curtain on how the fitness industry runs on shame, and how to spot it in your own head. He's honest that he used to sell it. Now he's trying to hand people back their agency instead of their insecurity.
I'd rather be poor with high integrity than rich with low integrity. Tyler said it and then proved it, shutting down a company that was making good money the wrong way. The life he built on the other side of that is the whole point.
The hardest thing Tyler had to admit was that he showed up with low integrity, and the world rewarded him for it. People looked past it because he was hitting every mark society calls success. Naming that out loud is where his change started.
